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Marcia Blane 10/30/26 Marcia Blane 10/30/26

Grief and Joy Can Coexist: Learning to Hold Both

Why healing from grief doesn’t mean the pain disappears, and how making room for both loss and joy is a healthy, honoring part of the process.

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Marcia Blane 10/23/26 Marcia Blane 10/23/26

You Don’t Have to Grieve Alone: Why Isolation Makes Grief Heavier

Why so many people carry grief in isolation, how that isolation compounds pain rather than resolving it, and what it looks like to let someone witness your grief.

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Marcia Blane 10/16/26 Marcia Blane 10/16/26

Not All Loss Looks Like Loss: Naming the Grief No One Validates

Why losses like a faded friendship, a lost identity, or an unmet dream often go unrecognized as grief, and how naming disenfranchised grief is the first step toward healing it.

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Marcia Blane 10/9/26 Marcia Blane 10/9/26

Grief Doesn’t Follow a Schedule (And You Shouldn’t Have to Pretend It Does)

Why grief resists timelines, how the pressure to “move on” often serves other people’s comfort more than your healing, and what it means to grieve without a deadline.

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Marcia Blane 10/2/26 Marcia Blane 10/2/26

Why the "Ber" Months Stir Up Grief (And How to Cope on Your Own Terms)

Why seasonal shifts in fall often resurface grief even without a new loss, and how to process it in a way that doesn't follow anyone else's timeline.

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Marcia Blane 9/25/26 Marcia Blane 9/25/26

What If You've Been Right All Along? The Case for Trusting Your Track Record

Why most of us remember our mistakes more clearly than our correct instincts, and how keeping evidence of your intuition being right rebuilds genuine self-trust.

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Marcia Blane 9/18/26 Marcia Blane 9/18/26

The Difference Between Intuition and Fear (And Why It Matters)

How to tell the difference between fear and intuition when they feel physically identical, and why building that discernment is key to real self-trust.

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Marcia Blane 9/4/26 Marcia Blane 9/4/26

The Boundary Was Never Just About Them: Learning to Trust the Voice Underneath

Why every boundary begins with an intuitive signal, and how to start trusting that internal knowing before it has to escalate into a crisis.

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Marcia Blane 8/28/26 Marcia Blane 8/28/26

When Boundaries Stop Feeling Like Work and Start Feeling Like You

How a practiced boundary eventually becomes part of your identity, and what four weeks of consistent practice can build in the nervous system.

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Marcia Blane 8/21/26 Marcia Blane 8/21/26

The Guilt That Shows Up After You Set a Boundary

Why guilt often follows a boundary even when the boundary was right, and how to tell the difference between guilt over wrongdoing and guilt over doing something new.

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Marcia Blane 8/14/26 Marcia Blane 8/14/26

When the People Closest to You Resist Your Boundaries

Why the hardest boundaries to hold are the ones with people closest to you, and how to separate their discomfort from whether your boundary is valid.

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Marcia Blane 8/7/26 Marcia Blane 8/7/26

Boundaries Are a Practice, Not a Personality Trait

Why knowing you deserve a boundary and actually holding one are different skills, and how to start practicing "no" one small, honest moment at a time.

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Marcia Blane 7/31/26 Marcia Blane 7/31/26

No, Nawl, Hell Nawl Is Here: Why Boundaries Are the Missing Piece of Your Freedom

The official launch of Marcia Blane's No, Nawl, Hell Nawl, and why boundaries are the structural piece that makes emotional freedom sustainable.

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Marcia Blane 7/24/26 Marcia Blane 7/24/26

Living Authentically in a World That Profits from Your Silence

Why unapologetic living is a practiced state rather than a one-time arrival, and how repetition, not perfection, builds lasting freedom.

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Marcia Blane 7/17/26 Marcia Blane 7/17/26

Choosing Authenticity Even When It Makes Others Uncomfortable

Why silence has felt safer than truth, who actually benefits when you stay quiet, and what it takes to reclaim your voice without losing yourself.

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Marcia Blane 7/10/26 Marcia Blane 7/10/26

The Mental Health Cost of Code-Switching

A closer look at what code-switching does to the Black woman's nervous system, why it became necessary, and how to reclaim your voice without losing your safety.

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Marcia Blane 7/3/26 Marcia Blane 7/3/26

Freedom Begins When Pretending Ends | The Hidden Cost of Performing for Survival

Explore why authenticity feels unsafe for so many Black women, what performing does to the nervous system, and how healing begins with the first honest moment.

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Marcia Blane 6/26/26 Marcia Blane 6/26/26

Becoming Your Own Anchor | What Reparenting Really Means and How to Begin

Reparenting is not a checklist or a one-time event. It is the ongoing practice of returning to yourself. This post explores what it means to become your own anchor, tend to the part of you still waiting for repair, and step into your healing without waiting for anyone else to begin it.

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Marcia Blane 6/19/26 Marcia Blane 6/19/26

What Healthy Masculine Energy Actually Looks Like and Why So Many of Us Never Saw It

Many of us grew up without a clear model of healthy masculine energy. This post explores what it actually is, how the absence of it shaped our inner voice, and what it means to begin building that steady, grounding presence inside yourself.

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Marcia Blane 6/12/26 Marcia Blane 6/12/26

The Roles We Inherited | How Emotional Unavailability Shapes Who We Become

When a father is emotionally unavailable, children don't just feel the loss — they fill it. This post explores the roles we take on to survive emotional absence, what that costs us, and how to begin separating survival strategies from true identity.

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Marcia Blane, LPC, NCC, C.Ht

Pone: 678-379-8450 Email: info@mblane.com

Hampton, GA

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